28 Single Mom Apartment Living Tips

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Being a single mom means juggling a million things at once and somehow keeping a roof over your head.

But there are ways to make every square inch, and dollar, count when it comes to living comfortably and stress-free.

And that’s the thing—you don’t need to spend a ton of money to turn an apartment into an amazing home for you and your kiddo!

At this point in my life, I don’t see owning a home in my future, so I’ve learned to make the best of what I’ve got.

That means turning small areas into functional spaces and decorating my home to suite my personality and tastes.

All without breaking the bank!

So if you’re a single mom trying to figure out this apartment living stuff, here are some tips for you:

Creating a Functional Layout in a Small Space

First things first: Using the space you have so that it’s functional and doesn’t drive you nuts.

When you start cramming things in every corner, things because disorganized and chaotic.

Creating a functional layout in a small space is all about defining areas, finding multi-functional pieces, and making sure everything has a place and use.

Here are some ideas to get you started:

1 Arrange Furniture to Define Living, Work, and Play Zones

Dedicating space to certain functions in your apartment helps define where things belong.

For example, creating a corner for toys means that when toys get cleaned up, that’s where they go.

If you work from home but don’t have an office, you can do the same thing in your living room with your desk and create an office “space” where worky stuff goes.

Doing thing means you won’t be scrambling to tidy or find things; everything will have a place.

2 Choose Multi-Functional Furniture Like Sofa Beds and Foldable Tables

To save space in your apartment, look for multi-functional pieces, like sofa beds if you have guests instead of another whole-ass bed you’ll barely use.

You can also use foldable tables for hobbies, storage ottomans for movies or games, or a loft bed in your kiddo’s room with space underneath for a desk or toys.

3 Maximize Floor Space with Vertical Storage Solutions

I think vertical space is the unsung hero of small space living.

Sometimes all you have to do is look up to make the most of storage in your apartment.

Use tall shelves in closets or baskets on top of your cupboards.

Floating shelves are also a great way to take advantage of wall space without cluttering the floor.

4 Use Room Dividers Like Curtains or Shelves to Create Privacy

Before I changed my kid’s toy room to a home office, I had my desk in my room and used a bookshelf as a sort of “wall” to separate the space.

You can use a book shelf to create an office or even a play area for your child while providing more storage space for stuff.

Budget-Friendly Organization Hacks

As I mentioned, creating a livable space shouldn’t break the bank.

There are tons of ways you can organize your home and make it feel relaxing that are cheap and budget-friendly.

Here are a few of my faves:

5 Repurpose Everyday Containers for Storage and Organization

I’m a sucker for keeping jars.

From pasta sauces to salsa, I always have a stack of them hanging around, ready to store something that needs to be organized.

I mostly use mine for craft supplies, but you can use them for hair accessories, your child’s art stuff, toiletries—whatever fits!

Not only are you saving money, but you’re also helping out the environment as well.

6 Hang Hooks and Racks to Make Use of Vertical Space

Again, vertical space!

But instead of forking money over for tall shelfs, you can use your doors and hang cheap organizers to hold anything from socks and undies in your bedroom to cleaning supplies in the bathroom.

Over the door shoe holders work really well too.

7 Combine Storage and Decor with Decorative Baskets

If you look around my apartment, you’ll see baskets everywhere—I love them!

They’re so easy to tuck into shelves to stash away toys, books, yarn, or anything you need hidden away but within arm’s reach.

I know cheap wicker baskets are hard to come by, but there’s nothing wrong with plastic bins from the dollar store.

I even use mine in my freezers to keep everything organized and easy to grab.

8 DIY Drawer Dividers to Keep Small Items Organized

Drawer dividers are so easy to make with some old boxes and decorative paper!

Just cut the boxes to create the size and shape you need, cover in paper, then fold and glue into place.

These are great for drawers that tend to get cluttered with small items, like the one in your kitchen (you know the one I’m talking about).

Kid-Friendly Storage Solutions

It’s amazing how your kid can manage to have their stuff cover every square inch of an apartment.

I was lucky to have a small den where all of my child’s toys went, but in my last apartment I had to get real creative with organizing all the kids stuff.

Here are some of things that really helped:

9 Label Bins for Toys, Books, and Essentials to Encourage Cleanup

Label everything! And if your child can’t read, draw a picture on the label.

This makes it super easy for your child to clean up after themselves since everything has a place.

And if you use the same size bins, it’s much easier to store too.

10 Place Storage Bins at Kid-Friendly Heights for Easy Access

The thing about getting kids to play is to make sure they can easily reach their toys.

I see so many kids rooms on Pinterest and I’m like: “How are they supposed to play in there?”

Everything is up high or out of sight for the sake of “aesthetics.”

So keeping things in reach encourages play and also encourages clean up (bonus).

11 Create a “Drop Zone” by the Entrance for Shoes and Jackets

If you don’t have a dedicated drop zone for shoes, coats, and book bags, then you know what it’s like to have everything strewn on every surface near your door.

Drop zones don’t have to be fancy: just a couple of hooks and basket for each kid.

And it doesn’t have to be right at the door, just close enough to get your kids into the habit of using it.

12 Use Under-Bed Storage for Extra Toys and Seasonal Clothes

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The space under your child’s bed is the perfect place to tuck away some extra toys.

I know I said to keep toys within reach to encourage your child to use them, but grabbing a bin of something from under a bed is pretty simple.

Or, you can use vacuum bags and seal up seasonal clothes to shove under there instead of letting them take up space in the closet.

Finding Affordable Furniture and Decor

You don’t have to drop a ton of money to find good furniture.

And you don’t have to cheap out on stuff that’s going to fall apart.

Same goes for decor!

Here are some ways to score some affordable finds:

13 Look for Deals on Thrift Sites or Online Marketplaces

Whenever I need a new piece of furniture, the first place I go is the thrift store.

You can find some really solid pieces at the fraction of buying it new…and around the same price as cheaply made stuff.

Sure, it may not be 100% in the best shape, but you can always fix things up or slap on a fresh coat of paint.

14 Invest in Furniture That Grows with Kids

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Instead of buying a crib, a toddler bed, and a kid bed, you can get pieces that do all three.

The same goes for tables, desks, etc.

These pieces may have a bigger upfront cost, but they’ll save you money in the end.

15 Use Removable Wall Decals and Art Prints for Budget Decor

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So removable anything is important for apartment living, but a super cheap way to make the space your own.

Instead of painting or wallpapers, just buy some decals to decorate your walls.

Same goes for art…instead of buying expensive prints, make your own or find cheap alternatives online.

16 Refresh Existing Furniture with Paint or New Hardware

Before you run out to buy new furniture, can you upgrade what you already have?

I can’t tell you how many shelves I’ve painted to give them new life.

Or how many handles and knobs I’ve replaced with something cooler I found at a thrift store.

Sometimes all something needs is a little change!

Maximizing Closet and Cabinet Space

The one thing I wish I had but can’t with apartment living is a basement to shove my stuff into.

When you live in an apartment, you have to get creative with storage.

And I’m not talking about every day stuff…I’m talking about things like holiday decorations and other seasonal items.

So it’s important to make the most out of every nook and cranny!

17 Add Shelf Risers and Stackable Bins in Closets

Shelf risers are a god send.

I use mine in my cupboards to hold more dishes (making room in my lower cupboards to store things I don’t use daily).

You can also use them to store folded clothes in a closet.

18 Install Door Hooks and Hanging Organizers

Using hooks and hanging baskets is a great way to clear clutter, especially in the kitchen.

You can use hooks inside a cupboard door to hang utensils or a hanging basket in your pantry to hold snacks.

These are also great in the bathroom.

19 Use Stackable Drawers for Extra Space

Bathroom, kitchen, kids room, your room…stackable drawers can be used all over your apartment to make extra space anywhere.

I like to use one in my kitchen to hold my child’s utensils (it’s in the lower cupboard, making it easier to reach).

20 Store Seasonal Clothes in Vacuum-Sealed Bags to Save Space

Vacuum bags for the win!

You can use them to store seasonal things like coats and blankets while taking up a fraction of the space.

Practical Tips for Managing Noise

Living in an apartment means that you have neighbors close by.

And kids are not the best at keeping quiet.

Here are some tips for reducing noise in your home:

21 Reduce Echo with Rugs, Curtains, and Upholstered Furniture

Soft furnishings like rugs, curtains, and upholstered furniture can absorb sound and reduce echoes. Layer rugs or add heavy curtains to create a cozier, quieter space.

22 Use White Noise Machines or Fans to Block Outside Sounds

White noise machines or even a simple fan can help drown out street noise or noisy neighbors. It’s a small investment that can make bedtime (and your sanity) much better.

23 Position Furniture Against Shared Walls to Minimize Noise

Bookshelves, dressers, or even your bed can help muffle sound from shared walls. It’s a practical way to make your apartment feel more private without major changes.

24 Coordinate Quiet Hours with Neighbors if Possible

If you’re on good terms with your neighbors, try to agree on quiet hours. It’s a simple way to create a more peaceful living environment for everyone.

Apartment Safety Tips for Single Moms

Last (but not least), let’s talk about safety tips.

As a single mom, you can’t have eyes and hands everywhere, so it’s important to take steps to make sure you and your kiddos are safe.

Here are some tips to help you out:

25 Install Door Alarms or Security Bars for Added Safety

Simple security upgrades like door alarms or bars can make a big difference in feeling secure. They’re affordable, easy to install, and provide an extra layer of protection.

26 Keep an Emergency Contact List Visible and Updated

Make sure emergency numbers are easy to find, whether it’s on the fridge or pinned to a bulletin board. Include neighbors or trusted friends who can help in a pinch.

27 Teach Kids Emergency Procedures and Contacts

Kids should know what to do in case of an emergency, from calling 911 to contacting a neighbor. Practice these steps regularly so they feel confident if something happens.

28 Add Small Security Cameras or Peephole Covers

Affordable security cameras or peephole covers give you extra eyes on your home, even when you’re not there. These small additions can make a big difference in peace of mind.

Simple Ideas for a Single Mom Apartment

Apartment living doesn’t have to be complicated or cost you an arm and a leg!

It just takes some thoughtful choices.

That means you don’t have to use every tip on this list to have a happy home—just try some things out and see what works for you. <3

Hi, I’m Chelsy, a writer, single mom, and creator of Motherhood+Mayhem. I share practical tips and advice when it comes to difficult co-parent, from boundaries to communication and dealing with toxic exes. Learn more here.

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